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Dark Patterns - the Modern Internet Part 1
December 29, 2025
Have you ever wondered, Why can't websites be built in a way that actually works properly, makes sense, and are truly useful? For example: Facebook (full of problems) - I'm logged in, of course, and looking at my profile page and I used the search to find, for example, all posts with "Marx" - searching for Groucho Marx quote-memes. There are 5 of them. There they are, fully visible, in all their glory, and a 3-button hamburger menu. Oh, but what is that? A menu with only one option? Does that qualify as a menu? Not in my opinion. That one option is to save the post. So, if I want to delete the post I'm looking at, I have to click the post to look at the same post in another view, then I get a menu with many options. Why can't they just put that menu on the previous view of the post? Seriously, building a working website is not rocket science.
Ha! Welcome to the modern web, where billion-dollar companies somehow still can’t design a menu that behaves like...you know...a menu.
The thing is, these sites could be built sensibly. They just aren’t. And it’s not because the engineers don’t know how, it’s because the entire product philosophy of Big Web is, well, dumb by design.
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What Vonnegut Was Really Saying
December 24, 2025
When I read this quote it didn't make sense to me, and the fact that it's been attributed to Vonnegut also couldn't be correct, so I thought -
“We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.”
--Kurt Vonnegut (1922-2000)
From his book Mother Night (1961)
This is how I interpreted it - every day we see people on social media pretending to be "socialites" or somehow richer or better off than they are, pretending to be specialists, yet they are not those things in reality - they are fakes. After learning what the quote means, the context around it, I was actually circling the quote’s point, and that point kind of sneaks up on you sideways.
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Why Honest People Don’t Pretend to Be Saints
December 18, 2025
"The more honesty a man has, the less he affects the air of a saint."
—Johann Kaspar Lavater (1741-1801)
As quoted in "Many Thoughts of Many Minds" (1862) edited by Henry Southgate, p. 290
Lavater's line is short, but it slices deep. He's pointing out a paradox most of us recognize instinctively: truly honest people don't need to look perfect. They don't polish their image or pretend they're morally spotless. They don't carry themselves with the stiff posture of someone trying very hard to be admired. Instead, they're comfortable being human, open about their flaws, candid about their limitations, and grounded enough to admit when they've screwed up.
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Overwhelmed and underwhelmed, what happened to whelmed?
December 16, 2025
Yes, “whelm” is a real word, and it showed up before both underwhelmed and overwhelmed.
It originates from Old English “whelmen,” meaning to cover, submerge, or overturn. Think of waves, floods, and things going badly for
sailors. That’s some grim stuff. To be whelmed originally meant you were buried, drowned, or otherwise having a very
bad day.
Then someone came up with overwhelmed, and it stuck, because being extra-buried is apparently very
relatable. Underwhelmed came much later and is basically a sarcastic back-formation. People noticed
“overwhelmed” and said, “Fine, then I’m underwhelmed,” even though that’s not how
prefixes were meant to work here. English shrugged and let it happen.
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Consistency Isn't Integrity
December 10, 2025
"A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines...He may as well concern himself with his shadow on the wall."
--Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882)
From "Self Reliance" (1841)
Emerson's line hits with a kind of quiet ferocity. He’s not gently suggesting that people should loosen up, he's flat-out mocking the idea that rigid consistency is a virtue. To him, clinging to an old opinion just because you once said it is about as meaningful as worrying about your own shadow on the wall. It's a performance, not a principle. He isn't criticizing consistency that grows naturally out of clear thinking; he's going after the kind that's powered by insecurity - the fear of looking wrong, changing course, or admitting you've learned something.
The heart of his argument is this: a thinking person evolves. A growing person contradicts themselves. A brave person risks being misunderstood, mocked, or accused of "flip-flopping." Emerson believed that true integrity means listening to your present mind, not locking yourself to the past. If yesterday you believed X, but today you've learned enough to believe Y, he'd say the honest thing to do is admit the change openly. To Emerson, refusing to evolve isn't admirable, it's cowardice disguised as reliability.
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